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Volume
3, Issue 1 -
September, 2002
"From
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#21 |
Dan Bylsma’s
Newsletter
A Feature of West Michigan Hockey
Camp
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I was on
the ice in Detroit when the
Red Wings lost! Sorry "Hockeytown" fans!!
For a
printer friendly version -
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www.DanBylsma.com
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DAN’S TIP OF THE MONTH FOR PLAYERS…
In
some of what my father and I have written, we've discussed why your
parents should allow (even encourage) you to play youth sports, and the
value of playing all the sports - not just hockey. The reasons are
for fun, to develop your athleticism, and so that you can learn some
important life lessons before you become an adult when a mistake can be
more costly than just two minutes in the penalty box.
Based on my emails, I'm
concerned that I've left the impression that I want to change the game
or take the element of competition out of your sporting events.
Nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, competition is
the reason we play the game, why we race to the school bus, try to win
at checkers, advance to the highest levels in our
Game Boys, be the first chair in the trombone section, or get the
highest grade on a math test. There is a strong desire built into us to
win, be the best, to be the fastest.
There are some people
who think this is unhealthy. They argue kids should play just to
have fun. So they advocate not keeping score or declaring a
winner. While the adults may not be keeping score, I suspect the
kids who are playing know exactly what the score is. I know I
would. While I support playing for fun, fun is one of the reasons
you should play, but not the only reason.
I think the most
important reason to play youth sports is to learn life lessons and
competition teaches you an important lesson. All throughout your
life there will be a lot of serious competition and you should learn
about competition, how to handle it, and that you need to work hard at
competing if you want to win.
There's competition to
get into colleges and the best students win. There's competition
for jobs and the best-qualified candidates win. There's
competition for promotions, and the best worker usually wins.
There will be competition to get contracts if you're a salesman, to get
published if you're a teacher, to sell the most cars if you're a car
salesman, and to win an election if you're a politician. You may
even compete for the attentions of your future marriage partner.
Life is full of competition - serious competition - and I think youth
sports help you learn how to compete. It teaches you that to win
you must be your best and do your best. It also teaches you how to
lose and learn from your losses.
So don't let them turn
the scoreboard off for your games. While it's important to have
fun, win or lose, it's also important to know if you've won or lost.
That's where the "learning life lessons" part of why I encourage you to
play sports comes in.
My father spoke at a
hockey awards banquet recently where the coaches indicated they were
serious about being Christians and wondered if it was okay to want to
win. My father remembered the biblical parable of the talents.
If you are unaware of the story, a rich man was traveling on a long
journey and he gave one servant 10 talents (a measure of money in
Biblical times), another five talents, and another two talents for
safekeeping. When the rich man returned he asked for an accounting
from each of the servants. The servant who received 10 talents had
invested them and returned 20 talents to the master. The one who
had five returned 10. The servant who had received two talents had
buried his and returned the two talents to the master explaining he was
afraid and didn't want to lose the talents, so he hid them. The
master was angry with this servant, fired him, and gave the two talents
to the first servant. The lesson of the story could be that you
shouldn't bury your talents. But the lesson also could be that you
are expected to compete and try to win with the talents that have been
given to you.
So I encourage you to
play the games of youth. All of them. Play them for fun.
Play them hard. Compete to the best of your ability. Keep
score. Try to win. And learn the lessons of competition and
what it takes to win. Because believe me when I tell you you'll be
competing for the rest of your life and the stakes will be more than a W
or L on your team's record.
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THIS
MONTH'S BEST QUESTION ON THE WEB SITE…
Dan:
I question the need to discuss the use of alcohol in
your newsletter. It's a parental/association issue... A.P
Dear
A.P. I am aware that for many people including myself (Mary Beth and I
spent the Olympic break in Napa Valley) the use of alcohol is not a
problem. But professionally speaking, I have seen - up close and
personal (roommates) - several potentially brilliant careers destroyed
by alcohol and it's not a sight I wish to see happen to anyone else.
I write this after the headline that many of you may have read that 25%
of alcohol is consumed by underage drinkers. That should be
sobering to anyone involved with youth. The chapter in our second
book "What's Wrong With Sneaking a Beer" was included to tell young
players that if you aspire to perform at the highest levels, you need
all your faculties. And we can all agree that the use of alcohol
precludes that. And then there is an aspect of alcohol consumption
by minors that the following letter points out more poignantly than I
can:
Dan:
Please print the following in your newsletter if anyone thinks that a
discussion of the appropriate use of alcohol at team functions is
unnecessary...
"Being
raised by hard working, God fearing, very loving parents, you would
think that I would've
listened to all of the warnings and advice about alcohol. The
truth is that I did. Most people have stories about someone that
they know who got into trouble with alcohol or worse yet, injured or
killed in a drunk driving accident. Growing up, I was no
different. I saw first hand the effects of alcohol abuse in my
family and heard stories from other kids who had similar situations.
To most people that would've been enough to scare them, but not me.
You see, in my mind I was different. I would never let myself get
too carried away, or so I thought.
"Behind our swimming
pool, in our large backyard, in a middle-class area of northeast
Philadelphia, I took my first drink at the age of twelve. Out of
curiosity I stole a can of beer and immediately after drinking it I was
trying to figure out how I could get another. For me, once I took
a drink, the drink took over me and I was no longer in control of what
happened next. This is a statement that I would re-live almost
everyday for the next eleven years.
"Almost instantly I
began to give up the things that meant the most to me. Youth group
at church, where most of my friends were. Boy Scouts, which I had
been involved with for several years. And baseball, my passion and
at twelve, my reason for living. This was the last to go, at
fourteen, because by then I had to drink even when I didn't want to.
Now prepare yourself for the irony. Never once did I think of the
consequences of what I was doing to myself. I remember thinking
that I was getting tired of everyone telling me that I had so much
potential and I was throwing it all away.
"Realistically I was
not major league talent or even of college level ability. But I
had heart and a great love for the game. When someone rounded
third and there was going to be a play at the plate, they had to be
ready to do whatever it took to score because they knew that I was about
to sacrifice my body to stop them. When you're the smallest kid in
the league and the catcher and are willing to do whatever it takes to
help the team, you are respected. And that's what I earned -
respect. What took a lot of hard work and determination to achieve
over a long period of time, seemed to go away almost overnight.
What I thought would never, could never, happen to me, was happening.
I was destroying myself with alcohol.
"After eleven years,
by only the grace of God was I able to sober up. My life today is
great. I have the best wife in the world and two great kids.
My son who is eleven plays ice hockey with the same passion as I played
baseball. My five year old daughter enjoys T-Ball and basketball.
My greatest hope is that they or any kid can learn from my mistakes and
continue to chase their dreams. In your book "So You Want To Play
in the NHL", you and your father ask the question, "What's So Wrong With
Sneaking a Beer?". Along with your informative response, I hope
that this kids form their own answer. I did sneak just one beer
and lost my youth, my friends, and all my dreams.
"Today I am 32 years
old and I've been without a drink for almost nine years but that doesn't
mean that I'm no longer paying the price for my indulgence. I work
jobs that are very hard physically because education was not as
important to me as drinking was. Recently, it's been discovered
that I have an abnormal growth at the base of my brain. Several
specialists have told me that there is a 99% chance that it's directly
related to the amount of alcohol I consumed. I don't tell this to
scare anyone because I know that many kids might think the same way I
did, "I won't happen to me." I tell these things because this can
be the reality of sneaking just one beer.
"My hope is that
kids won't just read this and forget about it. There may come a
day with they're at a party and have the opportunity to take a drink.
I hope they will think about their dreams and understand that they can
achieve them but they have to remain focused and clear minded. And
if they have the thought that for them it will be different, I hope they
remember that I thought the same thing. And lost it all by
sneaking just one drink."
As I said, more
poignantly written than I could say it...
And to A.P., I think
warning about the dangers of underage drinking and the messages we as
adults pass along to our children about alcohol are more important than
warning of the dangers of not skating in a seated position.
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MY CHARITABLE
TRUST FUND...
The
auction for the King's tickets and my first NHL Jersey will bring $1,000
to my charitable trust fund (the winning bidder's employer has a 100%
matching gifts program!). A huge "Thank you" to the winner and to
all of you who participated.
The next auction is a
Kid's Auction. I have a Wayne Gretzky hand numbered
(416/1999) Farewell Tour Puck in it's Upper Deck Memorabilia box.
The Dealer who contributed the puck tells me that the retail price for
these pucks was $100. I also have a Teemu Selanne bear - a bright
blue "Beenie Baby" type bear, and a signed copy of our second
book, "So You Want To Play in the NHL." So you're bidding
on the package of the puck, the bear, and the book.
Remember the rules for
a Kid's Auction. You must be under 18, you need your parents'
permission to bid, and you can only raise the bid by 25 cents. For
the last Kid's Auction, I sent every unsuccessful bidder an autographed
picture. There may be a similar surprise this auction. The
bidding will start at $10 and will end on Sunday, April 7th at 6:00:00
P.M. Eastern Standard Time.
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NOTES FROM DAN'S HOCKEY CAMP...
One
of the things you receive from me when you sign up for my camp is a
package that reminds you it would be important to come to camp in good
physical condition. Usually that package contains a part of my
summer training manual - largely because my father thinks you would find
it interesting to see what an NHL summer training manual looks like.
While I always tell my campers they aren't expected to train like an
NHL'er, it would be important to come into camp in good shape to avoid
injuries, to be able to keep up, and not limit your participation.
Part of the training manual deals with nutrition.
I was reminded of that by a question on the web site from a concerned
Mom who asked what kind of foods are necessary to keep up a high level
of energy. Her player was dragging after the second period and
didn't seem to have any energy. That prompted me to pass along
some of the suggestions from the nutritional section of one of the LA
Kings' summer training manual.
The
title of the Nutrition section is:
"Nutrition
for High Performance Hockey Payers
The
Good, the Sad, and the Ugly"
At
first I thought they were referring to some of my teammates. But
then I saw that the manual goes on to describe what kinds of food are
good (highly recommended), sad (to be used cautiously), and
ugly (avoid these or feel very guilty!!). The manual starts
out with five basic rules:
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High
performance... requires high quality foods from the four food groups:
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The
high quality foods should emphasize carbohydrates (pasta, grains,
potatoes, fruits, vegetables) and minimal fats (oils, butter,
creamy sauces, red and processed meats).
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The
best fluids for re-hydrating are the electrolyte with sugar and water
beverages like Gatorade; juices, water, tea, and mineral water are also
very effective.
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Fuels
are restored at the fastest rate during the first two hours after
exercise. Therefore, post-game or practice, the high carbohydrate
fluids and meals should be taken as soon as possible following the
activity.
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Sugars
in the hour prior to exercise can result in a "low" or tired feeling
just before or in the early part of the game or practice. However,
sugar/electrolyte drinks (Gatorade is best), during exercise
result in very high levels of re-hydration and provide high-energy fuel
without the "low" effect.
Here's the nutritionist's definition of the GOOD,
the SAD, and the UGLY:
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BREAKFAST
The GOOD: cereals, low fat muffins,
pancakes, waffles, toasts, fruit, low fat milk.
The SAD: cheeses, eggs, whole milk,
syrups, jams, coffee, peanut butter.
The UGLY: cream, riches sauces,
butter, ham, bacon, sausages. |
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LUNCH, DINNER,
AND PRE-WORKOUT MEALS
The GOOD:
fresh vegetables and fruits, salads, lightly steamed
vegetables, breads, pasta, potatoes, rice, soups, skinless
chicken, fish, much water.
The SAD:
red meats, shellfish, cheeses, creamy sauces, eggs, non-meat
pizzas, ice cream, desserts, coffee.
The UGLY: fried foods,
oils, butter, pork, preserved meats. |
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POST-GAME/PRACTICE MEALS
The GOOD:
pasta, breads, fresh fruits and vegetables, non-creamy sauces
and soups, potatoes, rice, salads, waffles, pancakes, juices,
water, Gatorade.
The SAD:
creamy sauces and soups, chicken, fish, red meats, non-meat
pizza, cheeses, coffee or caffeine drinks, ice-cream.
The UGLY:
deep-fried or pan fried foods, oils, butter, preserved meats. |
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SNACKS
The GOOD: raw vegetables, fresh fruits,
dried fruits, low fat muffins, toast, juices.
The SAD: popcorn (No Butter!), pretzels.
The UGLY: potato chips, peanuts. |
How important is this? For a professional
athlete whose body must be at it's optimum fitness and have the
ability to generate high level bursts of energy over a sustained
period of time - very important. If
I were to slack off and have two Quarter Pounders with fries instead
of a good size portion of pasta and a large salad with bread for my
pre-game meal, come game time it seems like I can't move my legs and
I can feel the lactic acid build up (pain).
Typically, after a game I have soup, a large salad with bread, a big
portion of pasta and perhaps an order of Chicken Parmesan because
it's necessary to refuel what's been lost over the course of a game.
The
saying, "You are what you eat" can be refined for athletes so say,
"You can only burn the fuel you have and it's not called junk food
for nothing."
So you feel like you don't have enough energy to
play the entire game and your legs won't function during the third
period, consider the food you're eating. Quarter Pounders and
fries may be the reason you're at quarter speed in the third period
and your legs are fried.
Bon Appếtit!
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I
think your academic progress is so very important that I have an academic
Honor Roll; I don't have an honor roll for hat tricks and shutouts.
I hope each of you are diligent in your studies and can either raise your
GPA by one point, or can attain a 3.5 GPA and be listed here.
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NAME
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AGE |
GPA |
SCHOOL |
TEAM |
STATE |
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Mitch MacLoed |
11 |
3.85 |
Spring Lake Intermediate |
GRAHA Griffins PeeWee A |
MI** |
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Cliff Jones ‡ |
12 |
3.96 |
Spring Lake Middle |
Muskegon House PeeWees |
MI* |
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Marshall Jones |
10 |
3.85 |
Spring Lake Intermediate |
Muskegon House Squirt |
MI* |
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Winston Jones |
8 |
4.00 |
Holmes Elementary |
Muskegon House Squirt |
MI* |
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Tyler Spiering ‡ |
11 |
3.96 |
Sylvan Christian |
EGRAHA PeeWee B |
MI* |
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Zach Fussey |
9 |
3.61 |
Holy Family Catholic |
IYHL Irish Rovers Mite A |
IN |
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Joe Adams |
9 |
4.14 |
St. Paul's Lutheran |
Jr. Ducks Squirt A
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CA |
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Bryan Duke |
12 |
3.62 |
Perry Meridian Middle |
Indy Racers PeeWee A |
IN |
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Ross Hinkle |
10 |
3.69 |
Wayland Pine Street |
Grizzlies Squirt AA |
MI* |
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Aaron Alkema ‡ |
7 |
TR |
Kettle Lake Elementary |
GRAHA Griffins Mite AA |
MI* |
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Daniel Monteforte ‡ |
14 |
4.20 |
E. Stroudsburg Sr. HS |
Lehigh Valley Bantam A |
PA |
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Bennett Schneider ‡ |
12 |
3.75 |
Ft. Meyers Canterbury |
Jr Everblades PeeWee Grn |
FL |
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Joshua Valkema |
13 |
3.50 |
Jenison Public |
Jenison Wildcats PeeWee B |
MI* |
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Casey Hobbs |
12 |
4.00 |
Pleasant View Middle |
Pueblo Panther PeeWee |
CO |
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Mark Hazel |
12 |
3.96 |
Pinewood Middle |
Kentwood PeeWee AA |
MI |
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Ryan Corgan ‡ |
13 |
4.00 |
North Muskegon Middle |
Muskegon Chiefs PeeWeeB1 |
MI* |
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Jody Lisicky |
11 |
3.80 |
Garnet Valley Middle |
Quakers Squirt AA |
PA |
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Max Goldstein |
12 |
4.28 |
Loggers Run Middle |
Jr. Panthers PeeWee |
FL |
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Jeremy Hopersberger ‡ |
10 |
4.00 |
Laingsburg Elementary |
Flint Phantoms Squirt AA |
MI* |
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Dan Dunbar |
12 |
3.93 |
Los Flores Middle |
South Coast Sabers PeeWee A |
CA |
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Barrick Bollman‡ |
12 |
4.00 |
Upton Middle |
S. Bend Irish Rovers PeeWee A |
IN |
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Piero Iberti |
12 |
3.55 |
Packer Collegiate |
N.J. Jr. Devils PeeWee Minor |
NY* |
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Josh Corgan ‡ |
9 |
TR |
N. Muskegon Elementary |
Muskegon Chiefs Squirt AA1 |
MI* |
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Kevin Brooks |
10 |
3.75 |
Santiago Hills Elementary |
Jr. Ducks Squirt A |
CA |
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Brandon Ryfiak |
10 |
3.50 |
Rockford Parkside |
Rockford Squirt |
MI* |
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Mark Jannenga |
11 |
3.92 |
St. Mary's Elementary |
Perani's PeeWee |
MI |
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Paul Engman |
11 |
3.85 |
East Rockford Middle |
Rockford Rams PeeWee B |
MI |
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Lucas McShosh‡ |
11 |
3.96 |
Baldwin Middle |
GRAHA Griffins PeeWee
A |
MI* |
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Andrew Fried |
11 |
3.75 |
Greens Farms Academy |
Wonderland of Ice PeeWee |
CT |
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Ian Jendro‡ |
11 |
3.50 |
Holy Family Catholic |
Seattle PeeWee AAA |
WA* |
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James Donley |
11 |
4.00 |
Maplewood Elementary |
GRAHA Squirt |
MI* |
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James Sheff |
10 |
3.95 |
Inland City Academy |
GLAHA Panthers Squirt
B |
MI* |
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Michael Orlando |
9 |
3.5 |
Wrightstown Elementary |
Ice World Devils
Squirts |
PA |
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Chris Orlando |
16 |
3.5 |
Canterbury School |
Canterbury Saints H.S. |
CT |
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Jonathan Koslop |
10 |
4.00 |
Pinewoods Elementary |
Everblades Select |
FL |
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Seth Hawthorne |
15 |
3.67 |
Grand Haven High |
Grand Haven Varsity |
MI* |
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Zach Runge |
12 |
4.00 |
Kellogsville Middle |
GRAHA PeeWee B3 |
MI |
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Brad Christiansen |
10 |
3.66 |
Peach
Plains Elementary |
Excel
Propane PeeWee |
MI |
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Ryan Christiansen |
6 |
3.5 |
Peach
Plains Elementary |
Grnd
Hvn. Rec. Inline Mite |
MI |
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Mathew Rosenthal |
10 |
4.0 |
Chaparrel Elementary |
Lightning Squirts |
CA* |
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Cody Hunn |
14 |
4.0 |
Fairmont Junior High |
Texas Greyhound Bantam AA |
TX |
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Parker Ewles |
9 |
TR |
Turtle Creek Elementary |
Jr. Mighty Ducks Mite
A1 |
CA |
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Brandon Grieves |
9 |
4.0 |
Cary
Christian |
Raleigh Storm Mites Travel |
NC |
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Tim Thompson |
7 |
4.0 |
Chapel Glen
Elementary |
Indianapolis Junior Ice |
IN |
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Andrew Lawrence |
10 |
4.0 |
Quinton Elementary |
U of D Jr. Blue Hens
Squirt A |
NJ |
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David Lawrence |
12 |
4.0 |
Quinton Elementary |
U of D Jr. Blue Hens PeeWee B |
NJ |
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Alex Toppin |
8 |
3.8 |
Rankin Elementary |
Tupelo T-Rex Mites |
MS |
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Drew Toppin |
11 |
3.9 |
Milam Upper Elementary |
Tupelo T-Rex Mites |
MS |
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Cody Horton |
10 |
3.65 |
Peach Plains Elementary |
Muskegon Chiefs Squirt B1 |
MI |
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Taylor Compton |
9 |
TR |
Rosy Mound Elementary |
Muskegon Chiefs Squirt B1 |
MI* |
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Brendon Stahel |
10 |
3.5 |
N. Muskegon Elementary |
Muskegon Chiefs Squirt AA1 |
MI* |
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Andrew Frank |
8 |
TR |
Eagle Lake Elementary |
Irish Rovers Mite A |
MS |
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Shannon Kelsey |
13 |
3.8 |
Three Oaks Middle School |
Everblades Blackhawks Rec |
FL |
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Brian Kowalski |
12 |
3.75 |
Navarre Middle School |
Irish Rovers PeeWee A |
IN |
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Reid Monroe |
10 |
4.0 |
N. Muskegon Elementary |
Muskegon Chiefs Squirt A |
MI |
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Matt Weinstein |
11 |
4.0 |
A.P Terhune Elementary |
Ice House Avalanche Squrt AA |
NJ |
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Josh Weinstein |
9 |
4.0 |
A.P. Terhune Elementary |
Ice House Avalanche Mite C |
NJ |
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Max Tani |
9 |
3.5 |
Serrano Elementary |
Beach City Lightning Mite B |
CA |
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There's room for you here |
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I hope all of you
set a goal to make this list. To qualify you must have a GPA
(on a 4.0 scale A= 4.0, A- = 3.75, B+ = 3.25, B= 3.0, etc) of 3.50 or
better, an average overall grade improvement (or OGI) of at least
one full grade over last year, or a Teacher Recommendation (or
TR) which must be Emailed directly to me by your teacher and be based on
outstanding achievement in a non-letter graded situation.
When you qualify, Email your name, age, GPA or improvement, school, team,
and state to
Number21@DanBylsma.com |
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Attendees of my hockey camp. **Mitch did the Acceleration
program with me this summer. ‡ Indicates repeat offenders.
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PARENT TO PARENTS AND COACHES from Jay...
One
of our hockey camp attendees (Daniel Harris and his father from
England) alerted us to an article written by an English journalist/sports
writer, Jim White, who coaches his son's soccer team. His
piece in the Manchester Guardian is about the trials of coaching youth
sports, coaching your own son, and playing the sport you coach as an
adult. It's a piece you'll enjoy reading.
There
will be some language usages you will not be familiar with. The
British think soccer should be called "football," the field should be
called a "pitch" (when everyone here in the "colonies" knows a pitch is
what a batter swings at), the sideline is called a "touchline," a
"copse" is a small stand of trees, and he uses some idioms that, while
unusual to us, are readily understandable (to have your "laces done up" means
to "have your shoes tied"). The subtle language difficulties aside, the article
will make you chuckle and perhaps sting a bit as well. It's too
long to include here but Mr. White gave us permission to put it on the
web site. It's well worth the five minutes it will take you to
read and translate from English to American or Canadian.
Click Here to call up Jim White's
article.
On
another note, you'll forgive a proud father passing along the fact that
Dan has been nominated again this year for the NHL's Bill Masterton
Memorial Trophy
presented for "perseverance, sportsmanship
and dedication to hockey."
Jay M. Bylsma
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THIS
MONTH'S SAYING TO PUT IN YOUR LOCKER...
"
I love the winning,
I can take the
losing,
but most of
all I love to play."
Boris
Becker
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ONE KID'S TRIP TO THE NHL -
current installment...
You
may recall that at the beginning of the season I
wrote in this column about the importance of attitude. I wrote, "I
think that attitude has more to do with the results of the season and
the success you may enjoy in life than does circumstance. That means you
can control how your season goes and determine how your life goes,
regardless of your circumstance.
Let me explain. If you read the newspapers (especially the Detroit papers),
the NHL might as well not play out the season. Detroit has picked up the
Dominator, Robitaille, and Hull (in addition to Yzerman, Fedorov, Shanahan,
Chelios, Osgood, and the rest of the Red Wings) and therefore has a lock
on the Cup. It's as good as decided. The rest of the teams don't have a
chance, right? Why bother? Let me tell you "why bother." There are 82 games
in the season and Detroit isn't going to win all 82. As good as the media
thinks they are, the Red Wings are going to lose some games. I guarantee it!
And I want to be on the ice when they do. And I hope it's in Detroit when it
happens. And if I can get everyone on my team to have that same attitude, I
believe it will happen."
From the Right Wing...
September, 2001
Last night was March 19th, and the Duckies beat the Red
Wings 2 - 1 and it was in Detroit ("Hockeytown" as they like to call it)
in front of 18,819 Red Wings fans and about 36 Ducks fans and I was on
the ice when it happened. I hope each of you, sometime in your
life, have the chance to have the feeling I experienced last night.
In the last issue of
From the Right Wing... I suggested
some things to help you through a losing season. Little personal
victories in the face of overwhelming odds that you can use to build
your game and especially your character.
We can all agree that I'm no Brett Hull and I'm not going to be in the
NHL Hall of Fame like Luc Robitaille or lead the league in
scoring like Brendan Shanahan. But last night I led both teams in
hits with five and in blocked shots with four. Paul Kariya got the goals,
but I did my job and because everyone on the Ducks did their job, we
beat one of what is arguably one of the best teams in NHL history.
And even though the
Duckies will not make the playoffs it was a thrill to lace up the skates and play the game – see how many
hits, or blocked shots, or good plays I could make.
My teammates and I focused on things that can be little victories.
Before the game, we decided we
could win
the first period. Even though the score was 0-0 at the end of the
first, we had out shot the Wings 12-7. Then we decided we would win
the second period and we were ahead 1-0 at the end of the second.
Then we decided we could and should win the third period, and we did.
At the end of the game they pulled the goalie and I was out there
against Shanahan, Hull, Robitaille, Fedorov, Chelios, and Lidstrom. We held them
off and I was on the ice, in Detroit, when the buzzer sounded, and we
beat the Red Wings!
In the plane ride to
Philly, I thought about how fortunate I
am to be able to play the game: to come charging out of the tunnel into
the spotlight, hear the roar of the crowd,
feel the adrenalin pump, to actually play
the greatest game in the world against the best players in the world.
I also thought
about some of you - kids like Branden Grevel and Travis Durkin from my
hockey camp who were at the game (and up way past their bedtimes on a
school night - hmmm?) and with whom I had a chance to visit after the game.
It is my wish for all of you that someday you can be on the ice, playing
your hearts out, and winning
against all odds. That you can be on your own personal second
base, like Scooter is in our baseball novel, and feel like you're on top
of your world. It's a great place to be.
And you know what else is
great? To see all the "I'M A DAN BYLSMA FAN" and "GO
DUCKS #21" signs. Thank you for
that. It makes my teammates jealous. I tell them, "You
get the goals; I'll take the love."
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So Your Son Wants to Play In The NHL
Published in 1998 by Sleeping Bear Press in the US and McClelland & Stewart
in Canada. HC $24.95. The story of Dan’s journey from the ice rink in our
back yard to the NHL. “This is the best hockey advice since ‘Don’t rile
Gordie Howe’”. "This is more than a hockey book. It's a book about life and
how to use simple lessons and values for success. …a refreshing
straight-ahead approach that makes you feel that you've learned something."
LA Times.
Autographed and personalized copies available at
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So You Want to Play In The NHL Published in November, 2000, by NTC/
Contemporary/McGraw-Hill. Trade paperback—$14.95.
Thirty-five questions that aspiring young athletes have and Dan’s and Jay’s
alternating answers. Forward by Luc Robitaille. This book won’t help you
play the game better, but we think it will help you live the game better. “I
am making this book required reading for my team because it confirms
everything I have ever said in the locker room and to parents.” Coach John
M. You can read a chapter by clicking
here. Autographed
and personalized copies available at
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Pitcher’s Hands is OUT! Is finally out!
(released) and you can get it at on line on the web site or at Barnes &
Noble. Published in February by River Road Publications.
HC $15.95. A historical novel about what it was like to be a kid living in
the Great Depression. It’s a great baseball tale. “…a wonderful story – rich
in historical detail, full of excitement, warmth, and humor – a story that
readers of all ages will not want to end.”
"These
father-son authors... made a literary double play."
Grand Rapids Press.
You can read a chapter by clicking
here. You can get autographed,
personalized
copies at
www.DanBylsma.com.
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IT'S COMING SOON IN
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Slam Dunks Are Not Allowed! - another historical novel is
coming – this one about basketball and World War II
will be released in early 2002. Many of the same characters you will
read about in
Pitcher Hands is OUT! – Scooter, Woody, Doolie and Dutchie - are now
on the High School basketball team and are facing the reality of going off
to war, a war that touched every family in America as well as Europe and the
Pacific Rim. You can read part
of a chapter from the original manuscript by clicking
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If you know of another player or his family
who might enjoy Dan’s Newsletter “From the Right Wing…”, feel free to
forward the newsletter along. Coaches are welcome to send the names
and Email addresses of their entire team - we're happy to sign them
all up.
If
you are reading the Newsletter because someone passed it along and
would like to receive the Newsletter for yourself, Email your first
and last name to
newsletter@DanBylsma.com.
You
are also welcome to reprint articles of the newsletter in your hockey
newsletter. See
Q&A # 51
on the website for the proper way to do that.
If
you have a question you would like to ask Dan or Jay, Email your
question to
questions@DanBylsma.com.
You can see the questions asked and answered on the Q&A page on Dan’s
web site unless you ask that the response be
confidential.
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DAN’S ORGANIZATION
West Michigan Hockey
Camp, Inc.
P.O. Box 917
Grand Haven, MI 49417
Fax: 616-846-0710
Email:
Number21@DanBylsma.com
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“Remember… it takes three
things to succeed:
talent, hard work and perseverance.
And
the greatest of these is not talent.” J.M.B.
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